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SunBlog 42.6

Weirdos in the mail:

“Please undo your tagging of my name in a blog post.
It is affecting my work and business associates I am a high school track coach and Triathlon Coach. This was brought to my attention by a parent.
This is defamation that affects my livelihood.
My name when googled comes up with “How to F a woman” and Initial response by parents seeing this is that they think I wrote about this topic. I work with their children .

Cease and Desist any further tagging, writing , mentioning of me in your blog, website, any and all social media, all web communication outlets, written or video.

If this the tag and article is not removed by April 25, 2019 I will take next steps with my legal representative.

Diana Twardzik McLaughlin”

Diana,
this does not sound like an apology at all…
Also, I’d like to direct your attention to this page here: https://www.mcha.nl/disclaimer/

So, in order to consider your request of removing all content regarding you, I will accept the following:

-post an apology for lying about me, make this post public. A video message is acceptable too.
-Send me proof.

Then, I will take a full Lunar Cycle to consider your request. Until then: gfy

Soap sequence here: https://www.mcha.nl/tag/soap/
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MoonBlog 49.1 the law of necessity

Birgitte,

in order to consider your request of removing all content regarding you, I will accept the following:

-unblock me on FaceBook first, by all your FB accounts/aliases.
-post an apology for smearing me, my name and my HD work falsely, be just as elaborate as you were smearing me, make this post public. A video message is acceptable too.
-Edit that specific smearing topic on your FB wall (do not delete it) to first make the post public, then to include the apology.
-write to all people you’ve written before complaining about me, like FB group admins and so on, with this public apology.
-Show me proof of all these.

The same applies for all others involved in that topic.

Then, I will take a full Lunar Cycle to consider your request.

Soap sequence here: https://www.mcha.nl/tag/soap/
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Bericht van Birgitte Westerveld

Weirdos in the mail:

TransIP 1 maart 2019 23:46
Goedenavond,

Van Birgitte Westerveld ontvingen wij onderstaand bericht.

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Good day,

I would like to report the following website hosted by your firm Transip B.V. server 95.170.72.245 for abusive content and slandering of my name across the internet. It’s a site maintained by Sjef Romijn : mcha.nl.

Content from a private FB discussion I’ve had between ‘friends only’ has been forwarded to Mr. Romijn in May 2018 and he has tagged several versions of my name (and those of others) and now all the offense content and images show up in search engines across the internet.

My reputations is being severely damaged and I would like all taken down. I have sent Mr. Romijn a private message this morning with the request to remove all content concerning me, but unfortunately he also promptly publicized this as well! I am pasting all links here. Your assistance in this matter would be greatly appreciated, not only for me, but for all others involved as my children other friends and family, not to mention prospective employers or clients, who are being affected by this as well for having me publicly exposed in such an offensive manner!

https://www.mcha.nl/tag/birgitte-west/
https://www.mcha.nl/2018/05/29/moonblog-9-3/

I am also including 2 of my own screen shots of the images that appear under my name..

Thank you for your help in this unfortunate matter,

Sincerely,

Birgitte Westerveld
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Met toestemming heb ik dit bericht aan je doorgestuurd, onze juridische afdeling zal dit verzoek gaan onderzoeken.

Met vriendelijke groet,
TransIP BV

Me: Ik heb ervaringen met deze dame gehad (waarin zij mij behoorlijk door het slijk haalt), daar heb ik over geblogged, zie de links die zij zelf aan jullie gegeven heeft. Ik hoor het wel als er vragen zijn. Bedankt.

Update:

Transip: Beste Sjef,

Dat kan ik me goed voorstellen. Op geen enkele wijze willen wij ons hierin mengen als dat voorkomen kan worden. De beklaagde kwam verhaal halen en wij hebben gedaan wat wij in deze situaties doen en kunnen doen.

Ik hoop dat je de dialoog aan gaat met haar en er op die manier uit komt. Nog een fijne zaterdag toegewenst.

Met vriendelijke groet,
TransIP BV
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Me: Birgitte,

in order to consider your request of removing all content regarding you, I will accept the following:

-unblock me on FaceBook first, by all your FB accounts/aliases.
-post an apology for smearing me, my name and my HD work falsely, be just as elaborate as you were smearing me, make this post public. A video message is acceptable too.
-Edit that specific smearing topic on your FB wall (do not delete it) to first make the post public, then to include the apology.
-write to all people you’ve written before complaining about me, like FB group admins and so on, with this public apology.
-Show me proof of all these.

The same applies for all others involved in that topic.

Then, I will take a full Lunar Cycle to consider your request.

Soap sequence here: https://www.mcha.nl/tag/soap/
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SunBlog 37.6

Weirdos in the mail:

“Sjef, zou je die HDS \’soap opera\’ content aub kunnen verwijderen. Je hebt mijn naam en die van alle anderen getagged en nu komt alles op in searchengines. Wij schijnen elkaar niet te liggen.. bygones be bygones…maar ik heb ook kinderen die hier niet bij ingetrokken hoeven te worden.”

Google translate: “Sjef, could you please remove that HDS soap opera content. You have tagged my name and that of all others and now everything shows up in searchengines. We do not seem to sit well with each other .. bygones be bygones … but I also have children who do not have to be dragged into it.”

Soap sequence here: https://www.mcha.nl/tag/soap/
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a not so Human Design soap

so (carefull, mansplaining here!) the title of the book ‘How to fuck a woman’s brains out’ to me means, to be so devoted to loving your partner -mind, body and soul- that she has no more desires left. That you have cared and catered for her so much, that she says: “thank you, I’m fine.”

Which is what I indeed try to do. And it is a big task, because I’m just a man, and to go that far is not easy. But the journey there is freaking awesome, and incredibly entertaining. No misogyny anywhere.

And one could go all bananas with my open centers and say: “see there, is not-self of him, in this center, that gate, ooh look at the color here.” Great.
Let’s begin with the close read and break-down of the comments on this feuilleton, after these screencaps:

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MoonBlog 9.3 focus

Something interesting happened,

a few years ago, I noticed my own behaviour on FaceBook was not on par with me being me. I was too pushy, and sometimes even wrong.

So on December 17 2014 I left FB and started my own website, and a blog, where I could still post and share what I see. Some things I like, but some just what I notice.
And to have an outlet for my own writings too, without anyone commenting on them. And since then it has filled with roughly 2400 posts, links, pictures, funnies, videos and whatnot.

Some of my writings are horrible, and some are divine. Some of my writings clearly show my issues, some look like I have no issues what so ever.
However, they are a nice archive of what I see, of what I notice, of what I deem interesting, or funny, or hilarious enough to blog about, to post, to share, to copy paste.

After a year I came back to FB, and since have changed my tone, not because I seek to make money with it, but simply cause some people actually grow, or mutate, change.

And some people like some of the more divine writings and share them in other places, like Facebook. Like this post:
https://www.mcha.nl/2014/03/14/the-human-design-system/ which was recently shared about 8 times on FB, which seemed to make some people upset…

Yesterday Birgitte West takes this post on my blog: https://www.mcha.nl/2016/10/23/relationship-therapy/ as if I am offering this as ‘HDS Relationship counseling’.

Which is hilarious, but false.

It is posted on my own personal blog and this happens to be a book I enjoyed. I did not write it, but for me, and my relationship with both myself and any intimate partner since, it was wonderful to be able to see an angle I had not see before.
It is a book where intimate honesty is of the highest standard. Of course the writers (a man and a woman!) made a shocking title, which serves a purpose, which I find funny.

But now she is claiming to finally ‘pulling the trigger on me’ as if having this or that sexual preference, or even a mild interest, has anything to do with what kind of sessions one provides. Or that I promote BDSM in any of my services. The title of the blogpost itself ‘Relationship Therapy’ is my own, indeed, which is tongue in cheek, but yeah, there is no defense against stupidity… She writes:

“stay away from this one — sick of seeing this character being hailed as worth following as a so called HDS authority
#notkeepingquiet #malechauvinistcrap #nowyouknow #thisisnothds #sjefiscrap”

And all this behind my back, since Birgitte blocks me for ages on FB, although her other account Tre Cinque keeps a close watch, and she scans my blog for dirt. To each their own hobby.

But also, what a huge disappointment for any future partners, if they themselves are into heavy BDSM, cause disclaimer: I’m not. So much.

Enjoy 🙂
Ow and read part 2 here: A not so Human Design soap

Soap sequence here: https://www.mcha.nl/tag/soap/
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