Sometimes relationships, friendships have had their run. It’s time to let go, and they simply present themselves as such.
Blissfully unaware of that, but then the other starts projecting on you, and when you tell them you’re not ok with that projection, they even tell you to doubt, that you know any better about what you, or your life is like, or about.
Another, out of the blue starts calling you, or what you do/not do, stupid. Well, you may indeed find what I do, or not do stupid, but it sure as shit does not make me stupid.
All of a sudden you realize, they’re trying to hold you back, that you’re going places they do not want you to go, or go in a different way. But that is not up to them, far from it.
Of course the danger is, that you’ve become so distant to certain things in life, maybe perhaps too aloof, or even ‘unemotional’, that you don’t see the forest for the trees. Maybe they hint at a blind spot, that is hard for ourselves to see.
But when the chord of interrelating is indeed cut, and you suddenly feel more free again, when you realize how sticky and controlling it all has become, how much drama was created by that other, ratcheting…
…maybe just maybe, you are indeed better off without them, and it is time for a new network, or some new people in it.
Only -you- can ever know, what is truly correct for you, so:
-don’t hold back
-take no shit
‘Merry happy fucking Kiron Return’
Edit/add-on: the funny thing is, they think they are disqualifying you, when they are disqualifying themselves.
Gate 8 of contribution, holding together.
The basic worth realized in contributing individual efforts to group goals.
Gate 8 Line 2 service.
Exalted: The highest good, to serve selflessly. The potential to be an example through unselfish expression.
Detriment: The earth in detriment, where reward is a prerequisite of service. The willingness to be an example for a price.