the defined throat calls me up several times a week, for months and talks an hour easy each time, and then says:
“I’ve come to the end of the road with our connection. Hasn’t felt right for some time.”
me:
weirdo: “This person is not contactable on Messenger.”
I say, she initiated everything from her own mind, starting on feb 12, 2021 with:
“ok new question, are you interested in a romantic relationship with me?”
a lot has happened, and most if not all just turned out strange if not weird, including her visiting me. We each walked away a few times.
Until all of a sudden, she planned for me visiting her, again, as in, planned to make it happen, planned. October 1st 2023:
“The will is being initiated to get u on a plane to come to meet here. Only if/when it is correct for u. I don’t know if you need an American passport, but the money is available for u if needed and it’s correct, you can keep the money if not.”
I can’t come to US, nor do I need a US passport for this, can probably never get one. Each citizen of each country has a passport of their respective country, unless they go through a whole lot of work and effort to change citizenship to that other country. And then…
“will write tomorrow about plan (for visit)”
I replied: “Please do not email me, at all, anymore. Not now, not in a year, not in 10 years.” The end…? Right? Right!
(ofcourse) 15 days later she writes:
“Can i come to you in the netherlands I’m sorry about before “
So I think it is ‘stupid question day’ today and reply: “Can you send 500 bucks? Today?”
One of her many replies is:
“no I don’t have 500 bucks to give”
So I say: “375?”
After some back and forth, she sends me 375 and then becomes angry. Pffrt. At least silence, for now….Right? Right!
Januari 4th 2024:
“Hi. Wanna talk?”
So another payment link is sent…The end…? Right? Right!
Please do not email me, at all, anymore.
Not now, not in a year, not in 10 years.
Weirdos in the mail
weirdo: Hey there!
Thank you for reaching out to us with your objection request. It looks like we have a little problem though 🙊. We couldn’t verify your identity because the email address you used to contact us is not in our system. To ensure that we comply with data protection regulations and protect our users’ privacy, we require verification of the requestor’s identity before handling any data subject requests. Rules are rules, and we have to protect the privacy of our users. 🛡️🔒
But no worries, we have a simple plan to fix this! 🤝 We kindly ask you to reach out to us via nl.objections.verify@gorillasapp.com from the email address associated with your Gorillas account. Just give us a shout from the right address, and then we’ll be good to go! 👌✉️
Once we receive that email from you, we’ll jump right into action and process your removal request as soon as possible.
Thank you for your patience and understanding! If you have any other questions, we’re always here for you via nl.objections.verify@gorillasapp.com. 🙌🤗
Best regards,
Gorillas Team
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weirdo: Oi from Portugal
We are looking for our Human Design Conference 2023 by OPEN G colorful HD program with experienced HD people as co-creators – our event to connect for the first time will take place tomorrow wherever you want Human Design Café Sun April9th in honor of RA’s 75th – please join the Movement. HD is for Kids! Currently we have 15 speakers from the Human Design School Vienna participating. We hope to become even more international ❤️
Best
Hennes 34-57 21-45
me: Oi?
looking for (what?), with experienced HD people as co-creators?
to connect, wherever you want?
there is a movement? what is this movement, what does it do, and what does it want by sending this message?
HD is for Kids! eeeeh yeah, ok
currently 15 participating, participating what, this vague movement, the thing today, what are they participating (with)?
we (is who, is what?) hope to become even more international.[heart] eeeehhh ja is that the goal of this message?
I’ve never seen a more hollow, phraseology filled message.
There is nothing to hook into, as it is super vague, and the sentences make no sense. Or it is simply very bad English?
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https://www.instagram.com/p/CpUSva6uN2I/ from https://www.instagram.com/modernreflector/
to which I had replied:
the start of the Lunar cycle is the Design Moon because we get a ‘new body’ each month, body > design, take it up with our nestor Reflector Dharmen to verify: https://thesecretofbeingyou.com/about.
Besides we are not here to let go of the Personality (side), just not make our decisions with our Mind.
And, the Lunar Cycle sampling is (of course!) about -all- 64 Gates, see my website here: https://www.mcha.nl/transits/
weirdo in insta messenger:
She blocked me 🙂
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Weirdo: I would love if you could unblock me on facebook so that I will be able to see your content and your interventions HD related.
I remind you you blocked me for my stupid comments, that’s over. i wont text you or tag you
me: which is the same weirdo: https://www.mcha.nl/2022/06/28/sunblog-52-4-self-discipline/
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Beste Directie,
Ik wil u bij deze laten weten dat wij de domeinnaam Bodygraph.nl in de verkoop doen.
Via Google kwam ik uw website tegen en ik zag dat u soortgelijke diensten aanbiedt, dus vandaar dat ik u nu een mailtje stuur met de vraag of u geïnteresseerd bent in overname van deze domeinnaam.
Ik mag Bodygraph.nl eenmalig aanbieden voor EUR 795,- ex btw. Voor deze prijs bent u de nieuwe eigenaar van de domeinnaam. De domeinnaam wordt zonder website of statistieken geleverd.
Wij gaan als volgt te werk:
Stap 1: We zijn het samen eens over de overname en verkoopprijs.
Stap 2: U levert ons uw facturatiegegevens, inclusief btw-nummer aan.
Stap 3: U ontvangt van ons een factuur én de verhuiscode van de domeinnaam.
Stap 4: U verhuist de domeinnaam en zet de domeinnaam op uw (bedrijfs)naam.
Stap 5: Wij zien de betaling van de factuur tegemoet.
Ik hoor graag of u interesse heeft in overname. Wat ons betreft kan de domeinnaam al binnen 24 uur op uw (bedrijfs)naam staan.
Fijne dag!
Met vriendelijke groet,
Sandra de Boer
Bemiddelaar
Domain Office
sandra@domainoffice.nl
domainoffice .nl
Weirdos in the mail
weirdo: 12:26
?????????
Kut mongol
Ik geeft voor je 5*
Klotzak
Go fuck your self
Vies mongol
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weirdo: friendship request on fb
me: Hi Samira, thanks for connecting ?
Is it ok to share your full (birth) data with me?
Mine are at the bottom here: https://www.mcha.nl/reflector/
weirdo: Hi Sjef,
The honor is mine ?
I have something to attend to now. Let me read your link later and I will get back to you. Thanks for your link ?
Hi Sjef, ik zag dat jij van Nederland bent dus ik veronderstel dat jij dan ook Nederlands spreekt?
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weirdo: Hello Sjef. Could you unblock me on Facebook please ? I won’t bother you anymore (tag, DM, etc)
There is a lack of legit authorities of HD.
Thank you
me: which is the same weirdo: https://www.mcha.nl/2023/01/29/sunblog-19-2-service/
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weirdo: Zijn jou verhandelingen wel als wetenschap bewezen?
Mijns inziens niet.
Je uitvoering van je beroep is ook niet te registreren.
Dit alles in tegenstelling tot mij.
Marcel.
Wil je met mij praten kost 150 euro.
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weirdo: Did you delete the thread? I just wanted to save my text.
Man, what‘s up? Feeling threatened by words? Censoring? I don‘t get it…
Oh I just found out I saved it… fuck youuuuuhuhujuu?✌?
One more comment – I get it that you don‘t want that content on your profile page (for whatever reason) .. but next time don‘t ask if you don‘t want to hear the answer.
Me: wait, I have changed -nothing- and you come with all this crap??
Weirdo: Oh I get it
It was Koen
sORRY
Me: ah Koen deleted his and you replied on Koen’s?
Weirdo: Yes
??
Really sorry
Me: fiesty fucker ? ?
quoting: “One more comment – I get it that you don‘t want that content on your profile page (for whatever reason) .. but next time don‘t ask if you don‘t want to hear the answer.”
actually, one can totally do that. There is no rule against it, no law that prevents it ?
Weirdo: Yes, no. Maybe. I don‘t really care right now.. Sun is shining, have a nice day!
Me: No !
ok then ? ?
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weirdo: Date: Thu, 10 Feb 2022 15:14:16
From: “m.parlow”
Subject: Awakening HumanDesign 2022 (the Fool says Hello )
To: 32 hd people
Dear Human Design Associates World Wide,
Humans are awakening and they are looking for guidance, a guidance Human Design could provide them with, as it is the Purpose of design!
To start with:
In early 2021 i got invitations from 2 different persons towards Human Design, and the Time was right, i came fascinated and driven for more information.
2021 I also turned 40, met Venus and some other “Gods”, got initiated, experienced inner marriage, still walking my spirit quest that lead me here.
I wanted to write this mail already in December, and since It keeps coming up and I am tired of avoiding truth and confrontation, I decided to follow my inspiration!
Im a non emotional 3/6 projector, with defined and connected Head and Ajna, Splitdefinition, that has the perfect form – now. im very familiar with the terms and ideas of the IGing form my childhood on, I was into Asian philosophy with 15, platon, Aristoteles, Diogenes followed, im deeply into history and I have a pretty good historic overview.
Im an artist mostly, but into shamanism and religions, working with mentally and physically challenged people, into developmental psychology, communication theorys, doing graphic design.. in short .. I was always driven to learn and get into things, like my types design intend to.
Now the knowledge of my design helps me to go even deeper. But a lot of aspects told by design, I grasped first otherwise. That’s why I am so very fond of HD and after I was looking around the web in research, and I COULD NOT BELIVE IT.
Youtube vids of Ra with 40 – 100 likes .. or less .. I really could not believe it .. why was nobody interested in what I consider the most valuable information, I was searching for quite a while, (all my life) to understand the deeper mechanics within.
I had to go through several religions, mystic aspects of schaman and indigenous knowledge and Art, Maya, Celtic, Egypt, Nativ Americans, Celts, Stone Age, Keiyserling, Astrophysics.. u name it .. ..NOW the mechanics are all there in HD .. well almost .. or : if they where!
Luckyly I found a lot of the audio material on “Human Design by Ra Uru HU“ on youtube at first.. back in 2021
– 20++ hours of listening to audio material later .. my inner voice told me to rip it so I could listen to it in the future for sure!
– but I did not listen to myself and now all the material and the account is gone ..
– This gave me the final push to write this mail!
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Weirdo: Grand Rising
How are you
me: [undef SP] I dont know !!? but I guess I’m ok?
weirdo: [heart like]
weirdo: Can I consider you for a private reading
cuz I have an important message for you that’s why I I reach out and the message is very helpful for your future
me: Is it ok to share your full (birth) data with me?
Mine are at the bottom here:
https://www.mcha.nl/reflector/
me: when you say: “Can I consider you for a private reading?” that means you want a reading from me.
If you say: “Can I interest you in a private reading?” than you are offering me one/solicitating for one.
And since you say you have an important message for me, that would indicate you want to give me one. Correct?
me: Hello?
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weirdo: Calling all #Reflectors (according to Human Design)!!! ?
Are you a reflector and feeling all the feels? Could you use some relaxation and a deep energetic reset in a loving environment where people just get you?
Join me this Sunday, online, at 10am PST for an hour of group-supprted Reiki healing for your highest good. ✨
It’s going to be magical! ??
Leave any questions you have below!
Hi There! How are you doing today? I’m reaching out to let you know that I’m hosting a Reiki for Reflectors group call again this Sunday at 10am PST. Would love for you to join us!! Would you also be down to post to your page or story to get the word out to all the Reflectors in the world who could use this? Thank you so much!! ???
me: Hi, only see your message now (y)
No, not down to doing that.
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weirdo: “Добрый день! Вас может заинтересовать библиотека с популярными аналитиками дизайн человека и свежие курсы PTL1 PTL2 PTL3 2018-2020 годов?”
me: please elaborate?
weirdo: “There are original courses of Ra Uru Hu. Are you interested?”
me: Is it ok to share your full (birth) data with me? Mine are at the bottom here: https://www.mcha.nl/reflector/
weirdo: “? Sorry, i dont speak English. I have many Ra courses, the price is 80$ I will send materials for trust in advance. Before payment. If you have a need. PDF + audio lectures.”
me: 80USD for everything? How many Gigabyte?
weirdo: “There are about 100 Russian analysts, the weight is 1 terabyte. Ra Uru Hu 80 GB. There are 2 MMI MAIA programs. As I understand it, you are only interested in English The whole list: Ra 300 folders, all for $ 80. We are a team, we hardly translate Ra into Russian))”
me: https://www.mcha.nl/tag/weirdos-in-the-mail/
weirdo: “I’m MG 4/6. Can you give me an answer on the suggestion?). I try to be adequate, but I don’t know English. I communicate through a translator”
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weirdo: “Removing my ability to comment or discuss my take on being a reflector highlighted to me the health of your group so I’ve kindly left. I wish you all healing xxx”
me: “I have done no such thing
I’m not the admin/mod there
but the about rules of that group are quite clear
there are no takes, only experiences. The rest is just mind fodder”
weirdo: “Mine was all experience x”
me: “Wishing healing is pretending something is wrong with those other people, making you a moralistic fascist
mirror mirror on the wall”
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weirdo: “Dear Sjef
I just happened to come across this post of yours with the following para:
“The other day (August 21st 2020), Earth was in Gate 30 line 5, which I do not have in my chart, nor do I have Gate 41, but I’ve never seriously felt more depressed and suicidal than ever before, when for instance I was in much more dire situations/outer circumstances. No I was just sitting there on my bed, watching tv, a comedy even, and I became deeply depressed and suicidal. This Gate 30 has always been a huge trigger for me. Nothing cosmic or bath-like for me, unless it was to drown myself in, to die.” [from MoonBlog 34.5 annihilation]
My feedback to you about the email exchanges around that date, specifically, 22. August, is that you may like to think twice about writing to a tutee/or someone you guide, when you yourself are in a difficult place.
Your comments depressed me about my life: ie what I had considered to be its culmination and its meaning, may actually have been completely wrong. – I fell into depression.
Fortunately, no lasting damage has been done.
I have recovered.
Retrospectively, I think your remarks were insensitive.
There is no need to answer this email.”
me: You’re full of shit since -you- did not even start emailing until august 28th
and I was completely fine the next morning of the 22nd, since it was only a Transit. I was not depressed or suicidal, I was under the impression I was, through an external influence. That is the big joke with Transits, they come, they go, and the big trick with Reflectors is, they can walk out unscathed.
Being aware/awake is not a picnic, don’t blame others for your own experiences, if you seek happiness and fluffy bunnies, go elsewhere. If you think I was being insensitive; impossible since we were not even writing each other. It never happened. Dream on.
Don’t email ever again, I have no appetite for any of these kind of false projections and accusations.
Update/add-on (of course they email again):
weirdo: “You were right: I got the dates wrong. I apologise without reservation.”
me: It’s not even about the dates. It is the hubris and arrogance and then the aggression, that anyone else is responsible for your experiences of your own life. The ridiculous notion that someone else did anything to you and you are a victim, of me no less. Shooting the messenger.
Given that such a reaction to the Human Design information is a great signpost that all is not lost, that you are actually human and face the music of your not-self. That is supposed to be depressing, it is supposed to be horrible to realize with real eyes. Unless you’re already dead inside.
I never forget, but I do forgive, through money. Send 400 euros into my account as a proper token of excuses and repenting. That’ll get you off my blacklist. Read more
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Weirdo: Sjef, I owe you an apology.
me: What for?
weirdo: I came at you pretty good one day, you punted me from your group and defriended me
no harm, no foul
me: well that is inaccurate, we discussed your non Human Design topics in the comments, as we work(ed) with 2 admins and 1 moderator, and per the group rules decided to delete the comments and remove you from the group.
but yeah, people who are into channeling and such I defriend, I have no capacity to filter all that crap (too).
And, duality man: yes harm, yes foul!
weirdo: I don’t always agree with you, and I will not get into that. Not my purpose here. I am a classic 3/5 and I am not shy about it. I also have a RAX Rulership 3 as well…..quite a mix.
However….I want to be clear that I respect you.
me: so you keep saying…
weirdo: your lunar tracking sheet from your page, I did that something like 2 years ago and it brought massive relief. and People kept asking and asking me to translate it and do the work for them. Fuck that…..I kept trying to encourage and show….and lead….and get them to do what I did. And many are lazy and lack the will to go do it themselves, spoon fed.
me: so you make an individual tool of personal empowerment into a shitty version of itself to spoon feed them automated?
weirdo: So this past June I quit a $140K a year job, and have gone all in with Karen Parker and am doing her training. Probably not in alignment with you….and that’s cool. It is for me.
I am going all in on coaching and doing my own thing way off the map…but associated with them. I now have an LLC and a FB page called Quantum Reflections…website launching soon and I am going slow.
I ended up reaching out to John at Genetic Matrix about a month ago and worked with him and that spreadsheet inspired by yours. He ended up creating this, and it was released today for Pro level subscriptions.
me: yes I got 2 messages about that before you emailed me. So who/what initiated you to do so, per your S&A?
My disclaimer page says: “people can use ‘my’ material from this website freely, any and all” which does not say, ‘companies can’.
Besides that, there already is this Transit Tool provided by myBodyGraph which I reviewed here: MoonBlog 54.6 Selectivity which as an online automated tool is far superior.
there also already is The Path of the Moon – A Human Design Experiential Workbook a culmination of the Path of the Moon workshop/courses Dharmen and Leela gave for many years and I joined/enjoyed 3 times.
weirdo: I have posted this in a few places and when people toss credit at me, I am quick to say, “hey, I didn’t create this….it was Sjef that showed me how to do this from his website reflector sessions.
me: what is this, some kind of repenting?
weirdo: Anyway, I may not agree with you but I do respect the hell out of you.
me: so you keep saying…
weirdo: I also am very heavy into Dispenza’s work and I feel that is for the passenger consciousness. A compliment to HD and they are in synergy for me.
I believe that we are all beings of light in these shells we walk around in here in 3D reality. I am into quantum theory, dispenza, Human design, and a lady named Allison Armstrong who does human insticnts. for me personally, they all fit into a synthesis…and it is unique and my spin on life.
While I may not agree with everything, your adherence to S/A was a touchstone for me to keep on my HD work.
I do feel we are in a great awakening worldwide.
I would point to the transits and the utter fucking chaos from the unconscious masses. The Schumann response and the heightened photonic activity…..the energy this year is insane. Do look into the schumann, I would invite some attention there as a data point. and yes….I have been to the very top of the Q thing and it is in fact real and it is growing.
However…..I have chosen to fully embrace and live my design and go all in as a reflector. I like Karen…I don’t agree with everything she says…but she knows her shit and is building something new. Evolution….like Rudd did.
me: that is the marketing in the window, yes, evolution, it rings nice, and it caught you in its webs, like so many other wannabees/newbies. When it is just more ego/mind horseshit, and the fact you need to use -their words- to explain why you are doing it, means you’re operating from a convinced believing mind. A wonderful signpost of the not-self, mind. You don’t know what correctness is, what it looks like. You keep coming with mental arguments why this, why that, and those are never true. It’s hard to wake up to the fact you are a believer, and are a slave to your minds convictions, especially when Gate 47 is activated, or as in our case, our Personality Sun even. It thinks it’s so goddamn smart, it believes it’s own lies. A tough trip, I know, been there, done that, no t-shirt.
weirdo: I feel that very soon people like us are going to be in high demand and very valued.
I do my own thing as I observe you do.
me: that is not a feeling but a thought, it trips up so many people not understanding this difference, but also another nice signpost of following the convictions of the mind by calling it a feeling. Another reason so many of us call thoughts a feeling, is so that it won’t get challenged, as they hide behind this falsely named feeling. We are not our mind, we are not our thoughts, and mind is -never- the Inner Authority. And you, are an idiot.
weirdo: But be clear that I do RESPECT you.
me: so you keep saying…
weirdo: If you ever want to chat or pull a video call, I would welcome that. I am in Arizona in the US
that is MY chart…. Green are defined channels in my design for lunar activations. Yellow are lunar Transits Orange are foundational
You inspired this…..and it is going to help a lot of people understand their design.
me: you took something that was mine, not yours, and now it is made into a commercial product with copyright even, but most importantly, it misses the 5-6 points explanation , how or even why to use it, but then again, they can always keep coming to me for their ‘Individual personalized and extended lunar & other transits cycle chart to discover and work with your own lunar cycle in a profound way, for Reflectors and other types.’ which is handmade and comes with their own private one hour session too.
That write up by Victoria Bagnell is not it, it is shallow, and it is wrong on multiple counts.
So people are left with just another piece of mind candy and not a tool for liberation. You yourself never even had a Lunar Cycle session or Lunar workshop.
You took the info and worked with it, as best you could, and sure you had results/effects, but you still do not understand what is actually used for.
But have (ego) sold as if you do. You are a one eyed king in the land of the blind, and an idiot.
weirdo: Powerful stuff for newbies…..and handy for me to import into my phone and set notifications.
I am hoping to work with him to automate that aspect.
me: it is going to be yet another powerful distraction for newbies, and John Yuill keeps offering more and more homogenized mind candy, so the unintended result, is that people sign up for countless HD lists, follow countless instagram influencers, read all the quotes from Ra somewhere, and get the most shiniest of subscriptions of online HD tools, but not one decision is ever made any different. not once does anyone ever actually get into the experiment of using and applying their Strategy first, to find out their Inner Authority second and then follow through on that then found Inner Authority. Getting stuck in all the wonderfully colored animations and quotes, but made not one actual change in their lives not controlled by their minds. Because yes, of course knowing about HD has an effect, but knowing does not an Inner Authority make. But talking about that will never help, because this is not a ‘convince the mind’ show with better or other arguments. The only way HD ever works, is if -you do the work- if you apply it. The rest is just window dressing, and most get caught up by window shopping, with the nice decorations, but nothing deeper content and sustenance than the shallow portal.
And you did not enhance my tool, or ‘evolved it’, you watered it down, is my observation.
Others tel me: “where is your cheque, or life time subscription?” or “They should pay you.” or “Who is this tool!?”
But I have no need for any of those. And you, are an idiot.
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FRI 23:49 Received FB friendship request, accept
Me: Hi, thanks for connecting ?
Weirdo: thank you for reaching out and accepting Sjef!
Me: Is it ok to share your (birth) data with me?
Mine are at the bottom here:
https://www.mcha.nl/reflector/
Weirdo: why would you ask for it Sjef?
Me: I always ask for it
https://www.facebook.com/sjef.romijn/posts/1048372788868833
[4/6 Reflector, PLL-DLR, RAX of Rulership] public service announcement:
If you make a FB friend request, but can not even say ‘Hi’ back, you’re out.
If you’re into HD but don’t want to share your HD chart with me, you’re out.
If you ask me HD questions, but don’t (want to) get into studying it, then ask 20 questions in groups, you’re out.
Weirdo: why?
this is private, no?
Me: but it is not a matter of why
it is either correct ofr you to share, or not correct
that is Living Your Design, to follow through on your correctness
not yout mind
Weirdo: if you will explain other than just request it would be easier for me to related to
Me: no, that is your mind being in control
Weirdo: no
Me: which is fine, but then your answer, falsly, is no
which is different than your Inner Authority saying no
Weirdo: falsely? can you explain?
Me: as long as you come up with arguments, like it is private, it is mind deciding
it is not S&A
mind is defending something
but like I said in the link
if, for whichever ‘reason’ you don’t share it
then we’re not going to be fb friends
I only interact with people I do have a chart of
as fb friends that is
Weirdo: I am not coming up with an argument but requesting to understand the why. I think it more than fair.
Me: fair is mind
understanding is mind
Im not here to answer your mind
nor are you here to answer mine
it is correct or not
those are arguments
and I have explained it
Weirdo: my Son needs my attention. whether you wish to be my friend or not is your own call.
Me: absolutely
Weirdo: trust is something you build
Me: is a mental discernment
but if that is your current answer, perfectly fine, no objection
enjoy your day ?
Weirdo: i invite you to read some of the things I am writing about friendship and trust
linkedin link
thank you.
Me: I dont have Linked In and Im not interested in the opinions of your mind, arguments
you dont want to share your chart, for whatever reason
so I unfriended you
Weirdo: we will talk more
Me: no we wont
Weirdo: thank you. have a great day Sir.
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Weirdo: Hi Sjef, I take advantage of the lockdown and diving into facebook. I see we have a lot of friends in common in the HD world. I see you are also connected to Di8rk Nellens. When did you had contact with him last time? I hope you are fine! I am grateful for being healthy, well prepared and perfectly protected. What about you?
Me: Hi Martin,
we actually met in Ibiza 2009, when I told you my name ‘Sjef’ you asked:
“what we’re going to have for dinner Chef? “
Then in November of the same year I sign up for your 2 lecture course sampling and protecting, that was enjoyable and alright. Including some other HD things I read over the years.
Then I started getting emails in my hd email account about pills you were selling to some Dutch HD-ers. When I told them, as a gentle friendly reminder/warning it was illegal to use email addresses from one company for another, they became furious and since then I ‘needed to be handled’.
I joined an intro lecture on your Rave Biology course in 2014, fascinating stuff, when you talk HD, that is quite enjoyable and good.
And then just a few months later your first comment in the Human Design – Train with the expert group was:
“endlich kommt Qualität in die Welt!”
Like everybody else in HD is just another sucker selling bullshit or something, unsure.
Meanwhile I see more and more people start selling ‘your’ transferfactor pills (not really yours are they) and all they can ever utter as to why or what, is to watch a movie and refer back to you.
400% immune boost no less !
So yeah, Hi Martin, nice to hear from you, I guess
Not sure why you ask about Dirk, did something happen to him, is he alright? I interacted with him last a few weeks ago already.
Martin, I like to share with you that I’m 100% positive, as far as absolutes go, to never ever buy any of your pyramid scheme pills.
But then again, maybe I do get initiated at some point, we will both know it then.
🙂 Reflector greetings and love.
Sjef Romijn
Human Design
Living Your Design Guide &
Rave Cosmologist Teacher
Weirdo: Hi Chef, funny, I just come back from dinner… [block messages, mark friend request as spam]
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Weirdos in the mail:
Weirdo: Hey
I’m a certified social media moderatore
I’m reporting you to facebook
I will report any comment I find abusive
based on my training as a modetator
Me: can I see the certificate?
Weirdo:(thumbs-up)
you’re a bull
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Weirdos in the mail:
“Please undo your tagging of my name in a blog post.
It is affecting my work and business associates I am a high school track coach and Triathlon Coach. This was brought to my attention by a parent.
This is defamation that affects my livelihood.
My name when googled comes up with “How to F a woman” and Initial response by parents seeing this is that they think I wrote about this topic. I work with their children .
Cease and Desist any further tagging, writing , mentioning of me in your blog, website, any and all social media, all web communication outlets, written or video.
If this the tag and article is not removed by April 25, 2019 I will take next steps with my legal representative.
Diana Twardzik McLaughlin”
Diana,
this does not sound like an apology at all…
Also, I’d like to direct your attention to this page here: https://www.mcha.nl/disclaimer/
So, in order to consider your request of removing all content regarding you, I will accept the following:
-post an apology for lying about me, make this post public. A video message is acceptable too.
-Send me proof.
Then, I will take a full Lunar Cycle to consider your request. Until then: gfy
Soap sequence here: https://www.mcha.nl/tag/soap/
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Birgitte,
in order to consider your request of removing all content regarding you, I will accept the following:
-unblock me on FaceBook first, by all your FB accounts/aliases.
-post an apology for smearing me, my name and my HD work falsely, be just as elaborate as you were smearing me, make this post public. A video message is acceptable too.
-Edit that specific smearing topic on your FB wall (do not delete it) to first make the post public, then to include the apology.
-write to all people you’ve written before complaining about me, like FB group admins and so on, with this public apology.
-Show me proof of all these.
The same applies for all others involved in that topic.
Then, I will take a full Lunar Cycle to consider your request.
Soap sequence here: https://www.mcha.nl/tag/soap/
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Weirdos in the mail:
TransIP 1 maart 2019 23:46
Goedenavond,
Van Birgitte Westerveld ontvingen wij onderstaand bericht.
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Good day,
I would like to report the following website hosted by your firm Transip B.V. server 95.170.72.245 for abusive content and slandering of my name across the internet. It’s a site maintained by Sjef Romijn : mcha.nl.
Content from a private FB discussion I’ve had between ‘friends only’ has been forwarded to Mr. Romijn in May 2018 and he has tagged several versions of my name (and those of others) and now all the offense content and images show up in search engines across the internet.
My reputations is being severely damaged and I would like all taken down. I have sent Mr. Romijn a private message this morning with the request to remove all content concerning me, but unfortunately he also promptly publicized this as well! I am pasting all links here. Your assistance in this matter would be greatly appreciated, not only for me, but for all others involved as my children other friends and family, not to mention prospective employers or clients, who are being affected by this as well for having me publicly exposed in such an offensive manner!
https://www.mcha.nl/tag/birgitte-west/
https://www.mcha.nl/2018/05/29/moonblog-9-3/
I am also including 2 of my own screen shots of the images that appear under my name..
Thank you for your help in this unfortunate matter,
Sincerely,
Birgitte Westerveld
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Met toestemming heb ik dit bericht aan je doorgestuurd, onze juridische afdeling zal dit verzoek gaan onderzoeken.
Met vriendelijke groet,
TransIP BV
Me: Ik heb ervaringen met deze dame gehad (waarin zij mij behoorlijk door het slijk haalt), daar heb ik over geblogged, zie de links die zij zelf aan jullie gegeven heeft. Ik hoor het wel als er vragen zijn. Bedankt.
Update:
Transip: Beste Sjef,
Dat kan ik me goed voorstellen. Op geen enkele wijze willen wij ons hierin mengen als dat voorkomen kan worden. De beklaagde kwam verhaal halen en wij hebben gedaan wat wij in deze situaties doen en kunnen doen.
Ik hoop dat je de dialoog aan gaat met haar en er op die manier uit komt. Nog een fijne zaterdag toegewenst.
Met vriendelijke groet,
TransIP BV
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Me: Birgitte,
in order to consider your request of removing all content regarding you, I will accept the following:
-unblock me on FaceBook first, by all your FB accounts/aliases.
-post an apology for smearing me, my name and my HD work falsely, be just as elaborate as you were smearing me, make this post public. A video message is acceptable too.
-Edit that specific smearing topic on your FB wall (do not delete it) to first make the post public, then to include the apology.
-write to all people you’ve written before complaining about me, like FB group admins and so on, with this public apology.
-Show me proof of all these.
The same applies for all others involved in that topic.
Then, I will take a full Lunar Cycle to consider your request.
Soap sequence here: https://www.mcha.nl/tag/soap/
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Weirdos in the mail:
“Sjef, zou je die HDS \’soap opera\’ content aub kunnen verwijderen. Je hebt mijn naam en die van alle anderen getagged en nu komt alles op in searchengines. Wij schijnen elkaar niet te liggen.. bygones be bygones…maar ik heb ook kinderen die hier niet bij ingetrokken hoeven te worden.”
Google translate: “Sjef, could you please remove that HDS soap opera content. You have tagged my name and that of all others and now everything shows up in searchengines. We do not seem to sit well with each other .. bygones be bygones … but I also have children who do not have to be dragged into it.”
Soap sequence here: https://www.mcha.nl/tag/soap/
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Weirdos in the mail:
Weirdo: Peace Sjef,
If you have any inquiries about me, feel free to contact me directly.
Misusing a Manifestor in the way that you did is barely forgivable since [whomever] was subjected to an uncomfortable confrontation with the truth of his own behavior on your behalf.
It was childish and I called you a baby and I stand by that.
I don’t require nor will I read a response from you in regards to this rather infantile behavior. Just understand I SEE you and I already KNEW when he asked that it was you asking for it.
Take care, [Weirdo]
Me: I have no idea what this is about ?
Weirdo: Oh, so we add liar to the list.
Me: ok, backing up
I think I know now, but you have not said what it is about
I ask [whomever] if he has your chart
he had not
the end
what he then apparently doe sis ask you, which I did not ask for, is his own decision
as he is free to do
And I can ask him for your chart every day of the week
so there
greetings 🙂
Weirdo: Like I said, a BABY LOL
Me: “nor will I read a response from you”
promises promises
Weirdo: Don’t do that. It’s childish and it’s unnecessary.
How about I won’t ‘take it seriously, just like I didn’t take [whomever] seriously…you all don’t follow your authority so I have to keep that in mind when interacting.
I will talk to you in November LOL
Peace
Me: or not 🙂
ow and psst, you can tell me what not to do, but it won’t matter
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Subject: Ticket#612537648: 14/07/2018 01:56:47 Read before your buddies will see the other side of you
“Hope you do not mind my english sentence structure, considering that i\’m from Denmark. I infected your machine with a virus and now have your private files out of your operating-system.
It was mounted on an adult web page after which you\’ve selected the video and it, my software instantly got into your system.
Then, your camera started to record you soloing, besides i caught a footage that you\’ve viewed.
Soon after some time it also picked up every one of your social contact info. In case you need me to clear off your everything i have got – give me 680 euros in btc it is a crypto-currency. It is my btc account address – [weirdo’s bitcoin address]
At this point you will have 28 hr s. to make up your mind Immediately after i will receive the transfer i am going to get rid of this footage and every little thing completely. In any other case, please remember that your video would be submitted to all of your contacts.” – Upchurch Hamby
Weirdos in the mail:
Weirdo: how would you describe gate 26?
Me: describing I wouldn’t so much,a s know it, what it is capable of
but yeah BIG EGO is one
Weirdo: whhy is it called egoist
what are people projecting on me if i have 26.5
Me: you do have it !
Weirdo: hahaha
unconciouss
Me: which is all they see
Weirdo: what do you mean?
Me: you think only about your Personality traits, while everyone only sees your Design traits
lots of mindy questions there bud
Weirdo: yeah why not mindy questions?
its interestimg
Me: book a session?
Weirdo: nah ?
but people do see you personality and design right
Me: then my big ego says: bye 🙂
no
only you see P
only they see D
Weirdo: oh ok
but even my 22.2 conciouss sideshould be projected on , are you sure what you are talking about ?
Me: dude, go fuck yourself
are you drunk?
Weirdo: well whats your problem ? im just asking ? haha, im curious
not my fault if you have a bad day
Me: no you’re questioning me, while asking me, while not paying me, wasting my time
ah good, yeah all my fault
the end, you’re behaving like an asshole
(nice example of 26 response for you) *unfriend+block messaging*
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Weirdos in the mail:
Weirdo: just so you know, you’re an asshole, and you should “reflect” on that.
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Weirdos in the mail:
Weirdo: Hello Sjef, Do you have MMAI software that you can run a Solar Return chart for me?
Hope you see this. Best
Me: You offer them yourself, but ask me? [his own professional analyst website link]
thinking to myself: ‘I actually feel weirded out by (t)his request, how to get rid of this guy?’
Weirdo: I don’t have the software at hand to calculate the chart itself.
Do you know my request was removed?
oh no it’s there – paranoid 5 here.
So no, I am no tasking for a reading. I am asking for the chart.
Can you run one for me on MMAI?
Me: Don’t want to. Not in my network of friends.
Weirdo: Accepted – very generous of you – NOT
Me: Ah yes, here it comes. Morals
Weirdo: Sjef shut the fuck up
Me:
Weirdos in the mail:
Weirdo: Sjef i have to say, i concur with [whomever], because i get contracted from reading your comments to others sometimes… Most of the time i resonate with the Content of your comments, or just find it a valid opinion, but not it’s spirit, and it feels that you write angrily, or without compassionate presence… I hope we can stay friends on FB after me writing this, as i feel we share a path, in a wide sense. I’m going to approach [.], and ask [.] to rejoin to group… presuming [.] is the one that left, and didn’t get throne out
Me: bullshit drama, do your thing, I do mine. You also talk not about the content of which I’m passionate about, but about the circumstances, as if you contracting is ANY indication of what I say is right or wrong. Don’t bother me with your moral nonsense, come on. The notion, the idea alone [.] was thrown out is so incredible, what the fuck even…? Did everyone lose their minds?
Weirdo: OK ….
Me: Yeah, consider for a moment what you want from me, by writing
Weirdo: If i want anything at all, it is from me… not from you… And i’m done.
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Weirdos in the mail:
Weirdo: Dear Mr. Pretends-To-Be-Certain, Do people also often tell you that you’re an asshole that easily gets stuck in your own very narrow and rigid way of seeing? Your childish need to be an authority and put others down? That you’re terrible at looking in the mirror of your own hypocrisy and judgments? I’m not into passive aggressively making wall posts intended for individuals, so I though I should offer you the honor of direct contact.
Me: No
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Weirdos in the mail
Weirdo: Hi Sjef, I am a PLL DLR. Is there any way to learn more about it that doesn\’t cost money?
I just saw. My birth data is [Month/Day/Year + Time]
I actually remember vividly that I came up at a projector, now a generator. I thought about it and looked into my gateways and saw that my original fixed patterns when avenues to revolutionise my results and then I remember subconsciously making a firm decision to become a generator. At the time I didn\’t know the theory well at all or that I was a multidimensional traveller. But now it makes sense
Me: Hi, thank you for contacting me.
Ehrm…. Would you not rather investigate why you have a problem with something costing money instead?
Or why/how I could answer this question in the first place? Or would want to…
Born where? Which City/Country (timezone)? But ok let’s assume [place/country]
It is not uncommon that some websites use American notation for time and date and others use ‘regular’ or someone does not say where they were born and thus such different results can happen.
https://www.mybodygraph.com/free-bodygraph/ making your Variable PLL-DLR indeed
To me it does not (make sense to me), sounds like a whole lot of unnecessary identifications to me. And, none of my business…
Weirdo: I have your perspective too. I don’t choose it. I am well aware of my soul’s lesson with money, poverty consciousness is a blessing in disguise and a work in progress. To answer, yes I have explored that. You didn’t answer though. Are there any resources?
Me: “Helpless and incompetent”? (Ra quote)
I actually did (answer you): “Or why/how I could answer this question in the first place? Or would want to…”
But why would I even investigate that for you? Are you paying me to work for you, so I can find out?
Weirdo: I don’t work with people like you. Never mind
Me: Nr 5 seems to fit perfect for you
But I guess nrs 1, 2 and 6 also apply. Thanks for the entertainment
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Weirdos in the mail
Weirdo: “I swear to God,if that HD page gets closed because of your fucking stupid comments, I am personally going to fuck you up, Watch me if you don’t believe me. YOu are a fucking rude asshole, and you need to get the fuck out of the HD community, and find your own group to lead, since you think you fucking know it all. NO one wants to hear your bullshit except Alla, so you and her can go away and let the rest of us learn You rotten piece of worthless shit. Go die somewhere else, and rot someplace else away from the HD community.”
And as an encore: “please do us all a favor and remove yourself from the PHS food and environment page so we can all feel free to say what we need and learn at our own pace.!!!!!!!!!”
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Weirdos in the mail
In a FB topic I wrote:
“A hanging Gate is a Gate colored in your Chart in an Undefined Center, a Dormant Potential is a Gate colored in your Chart in a Defined Center. Both types of Gates could be on the other side of your Split that Bridges it. The Not-Self not lives or manifests itself in the Openness of ones Chart only, but it is the mind, using your Openness to make decisions that are not correct for you.”
To which this message comes:
Weirdo: “So Sjef, what was you positive contribution to the poor girl whose fucking head you left spinning? Dude you tend to use your gifts on the shadow side.”
Me: *yawn*
Weirdo: “it is that mean, immature, competitive spirit that makes it so difficult to live here. i know you will not get it… however i needed to say it.”
Me: “I was replying to the other person who just blurted out nonsense, I rather have someones head spin then lied to. The rest is really your own black way of thinking bad things about others and really not my issue love, cheers”
After some contemplation I wrote this also:
Me: “So besides seeing people either as victims or as perpetraders, why are you harassing me with something that is your internal issue? Why do you not go inside yourself and find out why you have an issue with someome correcting basic Human Design knowledge? From which authority do you even dare to come and tell someone else what to do, and impose your morals on, in a private message no less? Next time I will report you. If you have a comment on mine, do it publicly. If you have an issue with someome or something, please resolve the issue yourself where it belongs and not pressure someone else to do it for you. This was free lesson, feel free to book an appointment for another session at my regular fee.”
Weirdo: “Maybe it is time to be mature young friend, and see if you can see beyond yourself, and your need to be seen. One must know their audience, to go to lines and channels before someone has had a foundational reading is pure arrogance and truly thoughtless. Also to speak to your elder in such fashion is pure ignorance.”
Weirdo: “BTW nothing to do with morals, just requesting you to not badger people with all your impressive HD knowledge, it tends to push them away.”
Weirdo: “And I do not have these conversations with you publicly, because I know that you do not set out to hurt, embarrass, try to make people feel less than, or make their heads spin. It is just this way you have of being seen, and I will not fuel that.”
Just in case some people wonder why I block certain people 😈 😎
(and yes, I mixed up the hanging gate & dormant potential there)
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